When inviting someone new over for a meal, its a good idea to get a sense of what they do and dont eat. While people who have allergies or follow special diets usually feel comfortable being upfront about their needs, many people are more wary of sharing foods they just really dislike. But if the goal is to serve a meal that everyone will enjoy, author Stephanie Lucianovic suggests the following guidelines:
Ask people if theres anything they dont eat. If its something like celiac where cross-contamination is an issue, thats something I want to know, but in general, I dont care why people dont eat something.
If someone asks to bring a dish (to make sure theres something they can eat), let them.
If possible, serve food family-style, so people can take what they like and avoid other things. And if someone skips over a dish, dont call attention to it.
If someone hates a food that you love, dont take it personally.
